Hey Macca,
I always net mine, though I am in a boat and have a mate to help which makes things easier.
I've seen people in kayaks use long narrow nets with short handles (Google Bass Action Nets to see what I mean), so maybe that style of net with a larger opening would make it easier?
I've only tailed them when they are already in the boat and they still move around like crazy so I don' think that would work.
Also, I use 30lb fluro and usually only have bust offs when using live baits (touch wood).