You pretty much summed it up no chicken tonight!
Watching the replies, we have members here with lots of experience who study weather maps, various websites and like myself, pay good money to be trained crossing bars and consult with VMR staff in the attempt to reduce the risk factors associated with bad weather, should it happen despite best planning.
The 40% variance MM mentioned .... I may as well sell the boat and not even go out on days they predict up to 15 knots without bashing the boat, which is what it was on Saturday - HOWEVER, a SW wind and the effect it has on offshore waters is much less severe than a SE wind of the same wind strength. The Bureau didn't get that part right, which is really the worste part of it, then add your 40% to a SE and we have a problem Houston.
No beer on board my boat, but it's real hard to reach for Tims' delli chilli chips with one hand while driving the boat in sloppy conditions..... Had to vaccume the floor before the roaches had a meal overnight!
Thanks everyone for the replies.
Scalem