Hi lamontsa,
motor height and then prop selection are very important to getting your rig performing to its best. It will help to ensure the motor is working at its optimum, and not lugging or over revving. This will help you get longer motor life, better fuel economy at cruise, good holeshot and a better handling rig overall in my experience.
Here are a few links that I think explain the variables of rigging motors and props very well;
http://forums.etecownersgroup.com/to...erado&trail=15
http://www.veradoclub.com/smf/index.php?topic=65.0
http://www.veradoclub.com/smf/index.php?topic=137.0
The E-Tec Owners Forum has a wealth of info and a number of Evinrude dealers and mechanics that can offer advice in need;
http://forums.etecownersgroup.com/mb/barnaclebill
To answer your last question first. Your wandering steering at below planing level speeds is not unusual. It could be wind or a number of other factors such as some play in your steering, incorrect motor trimming, weight distribution, or just the nature of your hull. Your motor set up may also be a contributing factor but only on the fringes would be my guess. Most boats wander a bit off the plane and are a bit tender to wind (heeling) and weight distribution and movement. Once you get your motor set up properly, try balancing your weight distribution and playing with your trim to get the best compromise.
You will see on the E-Tec Forum that the dealers seem to recommend mounting E-Tecs mostly on the 3rd hole up. You mention yours is on the top hole, which would mean it is mounted at it's lowest point. This is a link to another thread showing a motor mounted on the top hole/lowest setting (see post #3);
http://www.ausfish.com.au/vforum/sho...d.php?t=136793
I have taken a copy of that photo below and marked in red what would be the 3rd hole.
Focus on getting your motor height right first, as you may not need to change your prop. Changing props can help fine tune and personalise your set up, but you need to get your motor height right first.
Did you buy the boat from a dealer or privately? Do you have a dealer you plan to use? BRP offer a prop trail/exchange program that a dealer should be able to help you with.
Good luck
Cheers
Dave